Tina, as other people have said, it's hard to find the words. I'm a bit farther away, but know that I, and even the kids have had you and the family in our thoughts and prayers. The boy wanted me to tell you that he wanted me to light a candle for your mom, and for the family, so we have done so. The girl hasn't met you yet but also wants you to know that everyone is in her prayers as well. Anything that I'm able to help with when things need to be done, I'm there.